ADHD Therapy for Women in Vancouver

Empowering women with ADHD to thrive — with clarity, confidence, and calm.

If you’ve spent years wondering why life feels harder than it should — always behind, always overwhelmed — you’re not alone. ADHD in women often goes undiagnosed or misdiagnosed, leading to feelings of self-doubt, burnout, and confusion.

At Watermark Counselling, we offer specialized ADHD therapy for women that acknowledges how differently ADHD can show up across gender, age, and life stage. Whether you’re a student, professional, parent, or all three, we’re here to help you navigate ADHD with tools, strategies, and compassion.

You can meet with us in-person at our Vancouver clinic or access online therapy from anywhere in BC.

Many women with ADHD go unnoticed for years because their symptoms don’t fit the “classic” hyperactive profile. Instead, ADHD in women may look like:

• Chronic overwhelm or anxiety

• Trouble starting or finishing tasks

• Forgetfulness, disorganization, or losing things

• Sensitivity to rejection or criticism

• Mood swings or emotional intensity

• Trouble relaxing — even when nothing is urgent

• Masking (putting on a “together” front while struggling internally)

• Difficulty managing household, career, or family roles

This is not a character flaw — it’s how your brain is wired. And with support, you can create systems, build confidence, and thrive.

How ADHD Shows Up in Women

Our Approach to ADHD Therapy for Women

We take a neurodiversity-affirming approach, meaning we don’t see ADHD as a problem to “fix” — we see it as a unique way of experiencing the world. Therapy is about helping you understand your brain, meet your needs, and build a life that works for you.

We focus on:

• Self-understanding – Learn how ADHD specifically shows up in your life

• Skill-building – Tools for organization, time management, and focus

• Emotional support – Reduce shame, burnout, and self-blame

• Life structure – Build routines that are ADHD-friendly and sustainable

• Communication & boundaries – Especially in work, relationships, and parenting

• Coping with hormonal shifts – ADHD can be impacted by PMS, pregnancy, menopause

Therapy, Coaching, or Both?

ADHD support works best when it is integrated — blending therapeutic work (for emotional regulation, self-esteem, etc.) with executive function coaching (for organization, planning, time use).

At Watermark, your therapist can help with:

• Prioritizing tasks without feeling overwhelmed

• Navigating “analysis paralysis” and procrastination

• Creating accountability systems that don’t feel punishing

• Processing past experiences like academic struggles or work burnout

• Supporting self-compassion and resilience

Common Concerns We Work With

Our clients come to us with a range of ADHD-related challenges, including:

• Feeling “lazy” or “inconsistent” despite working hard

• Emotional burnout from years of masking

• Work and school struggles due to poor time management or distraction

• Feeling like they’re not living up to their potential

• Difficulty balancing career, family, and personal needs

• Challenges in parenting, especially if they have ADHD children too

• Social anxiety or relationship issues linked to rejection sensitivity

If any of this resonates — therapy can help you stop the cycle of self-criticism and move forward with clarity and support.

ADHD and Women’s Hormones

One of the most misunderstood aspects of female ADHD is its relationship with hormonal changes. Shifts in estrogen — such as during:

• Menstrual cycles

• Pregnancy or postpartum

• Perimenopause or menopause

...can intensify ADHD symptoms. We understand this unique overlap and incorporate this understanding into how we support your treatment plan.

ADHD and Emotional Health

Many women with ADHD also experience:

Anxiety
Depression
Disordered eating patterns
Low self-esteem
Relationship challenges

We address the whole person — not just symptoms — by working on your inner narrative, emotional regulation, and daily coping tools.

What to Expect in Sessions

In your first session, we’ll get to know you — what’s working, what isn’t, and what you want from therapy. Whether you’re diagnosed or just suspecting ADHD, we’ll meet you where you are.

In ongoing sessions, you’ll:

• Develop custom strategies to improve focus, productivity, and organization

• Explore emotional patterns like perfectionism or rejection sensitivity

• Create structure in your week that actually works for your brain

• Work through any co-occurring challenges like anxiety, burnout, or trauma

Our goal is to help you feel less scattered, more confident, and more aligned with who you are.

In-Person and Online Support for Women with ADHD

We offer:

• In-person ADHD therapy for women in Vancouver – in a quiet, welcoming space

• Online counselling across BC – for those needing flexibility or distance-based access

Whether you prefer the comfort of home or the grounding presence of an office, our services are designed to adapt to your needs.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

1. I haven’t been formally diagnosed. Can I still get support?

Yes. Many clients come to therapy while exploring a possible ADHD diagnosis. You don’t need a formal label to benefit from support.

2. What’s the difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching?

Therapy helps with emotional regulation, past patterns, and mental health. Coaching is more task- and system-oriented. At Watermark, your therapist can integrate both depending on your needs.

3. Can ADHD therapy help with parenting or relationships?

Absolutely. We can work on time management, communication, and emotion regulation within parenting, co-parenting, and partnership dynamics.

4. Do you work with teens or students?

Yes — we offer support across all life stages, from university students to women navigating midlife or menopause.

5. How do I get started?

You can contact us or use our online booking tool to schedule a consultation. We’ll match you with a therapist who’s experienced in ADHD and women’s mental health.

Let’s Redefine What Thriving Looks Like — Together

ADHD doesn’t mean broken — it means different. And different deserves understanding, support, and strategy.

At Watermark Counselling, we’re passionate about helping women with ADHD feel empowered, not ashamed. You deserve to feel clear, capable, and confident in your life.