ADHD Therapy for Women in Vancouver
If you’ve spent years wondering why life feels harder than it should — always behind, always overwhelmed — you’re not alone. ADHD in women often goes undiagnosed or misdiagnosed, leading to feelings of self-doubt, burnout, and confusion.
At Watermark Counselling, we offer specialized ADHD therapy for women that acknowledges how differently ADHD can show up across gender, age, and life stage. Whether you’re a student, professional, parent, or all three, we’re here to help you navigate ADHD with tools, strategies, and compassion.
You can meet with us in-person at our Vancouver clinic or access online therapy from anywhere in BC.
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Many women with ADHD go unnoticed for years because their symptoms don’t fit the “classic” hyperactive profile. Instead, ADHD in women may look like:
• Chronic overwhelm or anxiety
• Trouble starting or finishing tasks
• Forgetfulness, disorganization, or losing things
• Sensitivity to rejection or criticism
• Mood swings or emotional intensity
• Trouble relaxing — even when nothing is urgent
• Masking (putting on a “together” front while struggling internally)
• Difficulty managing household, career, or family roles
This is not a character flaw — it’s how your brain is wired. And with support, you can create systems, build confidence, and thrive.
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We take a neurodiversity-affirming approach, meaning we don’t see ADHD as a problem to “fix” — we see it as a unique way of experiencing the world. Therapy is about helping you understand your brain, meet your needs, and build a life that works for you.
We focus on:
• Self-understanding – Learn how ADHD specifically shows up in your life
• Skill-building – Tools for organization, time management, and focus
• Emotional support – Reduce shame, burnout, and self-blame
• Life structure – Build routines that are ADHD-friendly and sustainable
• Communication & boundaries – Especially in work, relationships, and parenting
• Coping with hormonal shifts – ADHD can be impacted by transitions such as pregnancy and menopause
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ADHD support works best when it is integrated — blending therapeutic work (for emotional regulation, self-esteem, etc.) with executive function coaching (for organization, planning, time use).
At Watermark, your therapist can help with:
• Prioritizing tasks without feeling overwhelmed
• Navigating “analysis paralysis” and procrastination
• Creating accountability systems that don’t feel punishing
• Processing past experiences like academic struggles or work burnout
• Supporting self-compassion and resilience
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Our clients come to us with a range of ADHD-related challenges, including:
• Feeling “lazy” or “inconsistent” despite working hard
• Emotional burnout from years of masking
• Work and school struggles due to poor time management or distraction
• Feeling like they’re not living up to their potential
• Difficulty balancing career, family, and personal needs
• Challenges in parenting, especially if they have ADHD children too
• Social anxiety or relationship issues linked to rejection sensitivity
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One of the most misunderstood aspects of female ADHD is its relationship with hormonal changes. Shifts in estrogen — such as during:
• Menstrual cycles
• Pregnancy or postpartum
• Perimenopause or menopause
...can intensify ADHD symptoms. We understand this unique overlap and incorporate this understanding into how we support your treatment plan.
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Many women with ADHD also experience:
Anxiety
Depression
Disordered eating patterns
Low self-esteem
Relationship challenges
We address the whole person — not just symptoms — by working on your inner narrative, emotional regulation, and daily coping tools.
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In your first session, we’ll get to know you — what’s working, what isn’t, and what you want from therapy. Whether you’re diagnosed or just suspecting ADHD, we’ll meet you where you are.
In ongoing sessions, you’ll:
• Develop custom strategies to improve focus, productivity, and organization
• Explore emotional patterns like perfectionism or rejection sensitivity
• Create structure in your week that actually works for your unique needs
• Work through any co-occurring challenges like anxiety, burnout, or trauma
Our goal is to help you feel less scattered, more confident, and better aligned with who you are.
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We offer:
• In-person ADHD therapy for women in Vancouver – in a quiet, welcoming space
• Online counselling across BC – for those needing flexibility or distance-based access
Whether you prefer the comfort of home or the grounding presence of an office, our services are designed to adapt to your needs.
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1. I haven’t been formally diagnosed. Can I still get support?
Yes. Many clients come to therapy while exploring a possible ADHD diagnosis. You don’t need a formal label to benefit from support.
2. What’s the difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching?
Therapy helps with emotional regulation, past patterns, and mental health. Coaching is more task- and system-oriented. At Watermark, your therapist can integrate both depending on your needs.
3. Can ADHD therapy help with parenting or relationships?
Absolutely. We can work on time management, communication, and emotion regulation within parenting, co-parenting, and partnership dynamics.
4. Do you work with teens or students?
Yes — we offer support across all life stages, from university students to women navigating midlife or menopause.
5. How do I get started?
You can contact us or use our online booking tool to schedule a consultation. We’ll match you with a therapist who’s experienced in ADHD and women’s mental health.
OUR APPROACH
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Empathetic Therapy: Feel heard and valued
Successful therapy is possible when you and your therapist make a true connection. That's why empathy is at the core of our counselling. By forming strong, authentic bonds without any judgement, our clients feel seen, heard, valued, and safe.
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Evidence-Based: Informed by scientific research
Our therapists possess a deep understanding of human psychology and mental health. To inform our work, we stay current on modern literature, academic journals, and scientific research. Ongoing training and education is a priority.
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Experience: Counselling for ~20 years
With a solid reputation, educational background, and experience in the mental health field, we have helped clients see positive changes in their mental health for nearly 20 years.
Looking for the right fit?
Book a consultation directly with one of our counsellors